Self-help books can contribute largely to an individual's life. Self-help or self-motivational books have captured society's imagination as a whole. Self-help books are written to help readers with the problems they face on a personal level.

Self-help seekers may have a wide range of problems, broadly categorizing them under heads with many subheads to interpret. Understated are some of the points for your reference, which could prove instrumental in your quest for landing your hand on probably the best self-help or self-motivational book in your favorite book shop:

  • Mental health concerns include an abusive relationship, addiction, anger management, depression, trauma, stress, abuse, and other social anxieties.
  • Challenges in modern lifestyle include family issues (micro and macro), sexuality, parenting, relationships, death, grief, and communication.
  • Personal growth includes career, creativity, health, success, spirituality, self-esteem, and relaxation.


Self-motivation is a great exercise for the brain; it covers a broad range of topics, all focusing on empowering individuals to improve their lives. Readers often are served with a fine balance of subjects ranging from motivation, career fulfilment, relationship, creativity, and the like.

Self-help guides have changed the readers' perspective to a great extent, conventional thinking is being replaced with a modern approach, which has opened a spectrum of choices. Whether you are looking to improve a personal aspect, say it be your love life, tapping in great returns on the career front, or looking to cash in your hobby as a substantial career. Self-help is the discovery of your true inner self, it is said human needs can be fulfilled, but desires can't be. Desires are what push human efforts to the boundaries. Necessity is the mother of all inventions it is rightly said a human being is surrounded by a very dynamic environment, which we web out. And this constant dynamic environment demands a very dynamic individual. Readers closely follow the experts and the critics for their recommendations and reviews of current best in the business self-help or self-motivational books.

In times of doubt and uncertainties, people tend to seek the help of self-motivational books or self-help books in search of encouragement, guidance and self-affirmation. Sometimes the self-help books are the phonies we should have avoided and we get trapped in a mess that we have created, so seeking assistance without proper investigation leads to doom. The best possible self-help is to first identify oneself as an individual and notice the importance of your existence. This is a great self-esteem booster and will help you land firm on your feet and strengthen your foundation. Selection of the best out of a lot of self-help books is widely recommended because falling prey to a substandard assistance book would worsen your current state of mind. A real mark of a great self-help book is the user-friendly approach, coupled with an essence that the reader can relate to in life.

"So This Is Reality" by Patti Phillips deals with very intense human emotions, which every one of us sometimes experiences in our lives. One of the most empowering life lessons is to remember; it isn't fair. If you can understand that disappointment will always be a part of the equation, you'll survive regardless of how unfair life can feel at times. Then your recovery will be much faster, the stress of it will feel much lighter, and the disappointment will be much easier to overcome. Like when Patti's father passed away. Though she never truly overcame that tragedy. Her only salvation was keeping her mind set on the fact they would meet again in a far better place.

This book will touch your heart and help make people the persons we're all meant to be. Good, honest, caring human beings. To do whatever you can to get your divine truth within yourself out. To stand up for what's right, pure, pertinent, and meaningful. Helping and encouraging others, however, and whenever Patti can, has always been one of her life's goals. The purpose of life is a life of purpose.

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