The reason people get terribly discouraged when they pray and can't hear God is because it seems as if God is not answering them. In order to keep faith, we have to open our minds to the idea that just because we believe "God doesn't care about me" or "God doesn't exist" doesn't mean it's true.
Here are five reasons to keep faith even though, right now, you think you can't hear God:
1. God hears you even if you don't hear Him.
In How You Can Talk With God, Paramahansa Yogananda tells us, "The trouble is not with Him, but with us. Our intuitive telephonic system is out of order. God is calling us and speaking to us, but we do not hear Him." Even if you are convinced that God has not heard you because you specifically asked, and even begged, for something and did not get it, all that proves is that you were directing God to do what you thought best-rather than asking God for His guidance. We have to remain open to the possibility that what we think is best is not necessarily so. Our solutions may not be the Answer. Extend a little willingness to trust that God has heard you, even if you haven't heard His reply - yet.
2. You have your fingers in your ears.
We don't realize that we are deliberately plugging up our hearing, which, of course, interferes with receiving God's messages to us. In order to hear God, whose call is there for us continuously, all day and all night long, we need to open ourselves to Him by releasing our desires, longings, and demands. The way to do this is to give everything to God. When we give God our desires, our wishes, our fears and sorrows, our resentments and jealousies, we are releasing blockages which clear our "ears" and makes it possible to "hear" Him.
3. Your eyes are closed.
A Course in Miracles tells us, "You believe that what your physical eyes cannot see does not exist. This leads to a denial of spiritual sight." Many spiritual paths speak of a third eye. Located in the space between the eyebrows is the sixth chakra, the energy center of enlightened vision, which brings the body's eyes together into one single eye - a spiritual eye which gives us God's Vision. God speaks to us with symbols. It may be an inner voice, or visions, or a coincidence which is more than coincidence. Open your mind and ears and eyes will start to reveal Him to you. You can Google "spiritual eye meditation" to find a specific exercise to help you open your spiritual eye.
4. You are asleep.
In the bible, the Adam and Eve story tells us that Adam fell into a deep sleep, but nowhere does it say that he awoke from this sleep. Again, more than one spiritual path tells us that this world is a dream or an illusion. A common reason that we think we can't hear God is a course in miracles we are in a deep, hypnotic sleep, utterly convinced that our dream is reality, when actually God is a reality beyond our human comprehension.
A compelling paragraph from A Course in Miracles states, "You are at home in God, dreaming of exile but perfectly capable of awakening to reality. Is it your decision to do so? You recognize from your own experience that what you see in dreams you think is real while you are asleep. Yet the instant you waken you realize that everything that seemed to happen in the dream did not happen at all. You do not think this strange, even though all the laws of what you awaken to were violated while you slept. Is it not possible that you merely shifted from one dream to another, without really waking?"
The question becomes, how can we awaken, and in that awakening hear what God has been whispering in our sleepy ear the entire time? There are many ways. One is to quiet the mind through meditation. Another is to ask God to guide us in His way without setting our own agenda. The main thing is to listen receptively.
5. Your seeds are germinating underground.
God is Love Itself, and you are God's child. Trust that any time you turn to God that you are developing a relationship with Him. He is aware of you always. You are just learning how to recognize His communication, which comes in many varied forms and symbols. Every time you turn to God you plant a seed of love in the ground. They are germinating. The buds will poke out from the earth and start to rise toward heaven - your seeds will blossom. Let yourself believe this and you will find that God's Voice was with you all along.
These are five reasons to keep faith even though you can't hear God in this moment. Open your heart, open your mind, and let God surprise you. When we think too much we block our ability to receive God's Thoughts. Try to relax, be it meditating, cleaning the house, fishing, or taking a bath - something calming that takes you out of your worried thoughts, and chances are better that God will reveal Himself in the very moment you least expect it.